The Gough family has produced many distinguished soldiers. In March 2012, The Daily Mail published an article entitled Britain’s Bravest Family which described the three of its members who had been awarded the Victoria Cross. General Sir Charles Gough VC GCB, was serving with Hodson’s Horse at the Siege of Lucknow when on 15 August 1857 he was awarded the Victoria Cross for saving the life of his brother Hugh,. General Sir Hugh Gough VC GCB, when a Lieutenant in the 1st Bengal European Light Cavalry, was awarded the Victoria Cross on 25 February 1858 for seizing two enemy guns near Alumbagh, and later for his inspirational leadership in attacking enemy guns near Jellalabad. The third recipient was General Sir Charles Gough’s son, Brigadier General Sir John Gough VC CMG KCB, was awarded the Victoria Cross on 22 April 1904 when a Major in the Rifle Brigade, for his bravery in helping to save a mortally wounded officer under fire during the Somaliland Expedition.

Two members of the Gough family served in the 2nd Goorkhas: Lieutenant Colonel Hugh Augustus Kepple Gough CIE (1871-1950 ) and his nephew Brigadier William George Hugh Gough MC ( 1897-1948 ).

Lieutenant Colonel Hugh Gough was the third son of General Sir Hugh Gough, nephew of General Sir Charles Gough, and first cousin of General Sir Hubert Gough and Major General Sir John Gough. He was also the uncle of Brigadier William Gough. He was educated at Wellington College and in June 1890 was gazetted to the Wiltshire Regiment, transferring to the 2nd Battalion 2nd Goorkhas in June 1892, officiating as a Wing Officer on probation until 1894 when he was appointed to special duties at Gilgit as Assistant Political Officer. He left the Regiment in 1898 to join the Political Department and served in the Punjab, Baluchistan, Central Provinces, Persia and Zhob.

In 1914, he was recalled to military service and rejoined the 2nd Goorkhas. He commanded the 2nd Battalion Depot in Dehra Dun until 1916, when he returned to the Political Department until his retirement in 1923. In an obituary written in 1950 by Major General Godfray Hind, he was described as ‘one of the kindest and keenest officers of the Regiment. Known to few of the present generation, he always kept up his interest in the Regiment.’

Brigadier William Gough, known as ‘ Bill ‘, was the son of Lieutenant Colonel Charles Gough, late Bengal Lancers, a nephew of Lieutenant Colonel Hugh Gough and grandson of General Sir Hugh Gough. Educated at Haileybury and the Royal Military College Sandhurst. He arrived in India in 1915 and joined the 1st Battalion, 2nd Goorkhas. He became Company Commander No 1 Double Company in Mesopotamia and was awarded a Military Cross in the assault on the Dujaila Redoubt. He was accidentally wounded, receiving no less than 27 wounds, a broken arm and leg and subsequent loss of an eye.

In 1918 Bill Gough took part in the Marri operations and in 1919 was a company commander in Waziristan. He was fined Rs 100 for burning a village in British territory, but the fine was never paid. He held various Staff appointments throughout the 1920s and 30s until he rejoined the 1st Battalion as 21C. The following year, he commanded the Regimental Contingent in the UK at the Coronation of King George VI. He took part in further operations in Waziristan before being appointed Commandant 2nd Battalion in 1938. He was described in the Regimental History as ‘one of the most aggressive and dynamic officers of the Regiment. He was a forward thinker who foresaw the possibilities of specialist training and welcomed with avidity the experiments of his colleague, Colonel Tuker.’ He qualified as a parachutist in the UK and on his return to India in 1941 raised the first Indian Parachute Brigade, designated the 50th. He retired in 1947 and was killed in an air crash in South Africa in 1948.

Bill Gough gets a mention in Major General Farrar-Hockley’s biography of General Sir Hubert Gough ‘Goughie’. The book recounts that in 1921, at the age of 24, Bill Gough and his cousins (the General’s daughters) became involved in a practical joke. They made a hole in an egg with a needle and pushed in horse hair, which went in with ease, and when boiled, the hole closed. The egg in question was duly given to the unsuspecting General for his breakfast, who, on close inspection and not finding the hole, suspected the hen had some terrible disease. After it happened again, he informed the local branch of the Farmers’ Union, which closely examined the eggs but came to no conclusion. Eventually a governess discovered horse hair in the schoolroom and showed it to the General. Bill Gough had returned to the 2nd Goorkhas but his daughters were forced to own up. After a flash of anger their father’s sense of the ridiculous asserted itself and he was relieved that more experienced men than himself had fallen for what was apparently an old country joke.

I have to declare a personal interest in the Goughs because I married Miss Rosaleen Gough, the younger daughter of Lieutenant Johnny Gough, late Irish Guards, who at 101 is the oldest surviving Mick from the Second World War and in 1944 took part in the breakout from Normandy and the subsequent pursuit across France, Belgium, Holland and into Germany.

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‘Gurkhas: Warriors from the Himalayas’ is by Gordon Elsden, who served alongside Gurkhas when with the Royal Hong Kong Police in 1979-2019, latterly becoming a Senior Inspector. It is a handsome two-volume compendium of stories and reminiscences collected from 28 retired Gurkhas and three Gurkha ladies. Most of the material is consequently about the Gurkha experience of the last 50 years although some of the family histories hark back to the early 20th and even late 19th centuries. Two of the most prominent testimonies from Sirmooris are by Major Rambahadur Gurung and Major(QGO) Hitman Gurung.

The book gives a voice to Gurkhas in a way that few other books have done (one exception is Lieutenant Colonel JP Cross’s 2007 book ‘Gurkhas at War’).  As such Elsden’s book deserves to be fêted.  It contains very little supplementary material explaining context which gives a welcome prominence to the personal accounts. I found the many anecdotes and insights fascinating, mainly because they provide such a different perspective on the Gurkha experience to the many factual histories and the plethora of glossy coffee-table books about Gurkhas. The contents also remind us of the rich Nepali hinterland behind the details of British military service. There are many stories about jhankri, bhut and bokshi (witch doctors, ghosts and witches). Several accounts reminisce happily about rodhi, the (to western ears and eyes) rather innocent gatherings of young Nepali boys and girls. Several recount at length the experience of finding a wife and getting married.

The concept of the book means it is necessarily new material. As such it is an important historical record in a similar way to Studs Terkel’s verbal histories and the ‘Forgotten Voices’ series. It has only a few passing accounts of warfighting, and even those are not particularly detailed or evocative. The book is consequently less a history of wartime events in the way these other verbal histories are, and more a series of personal accounts of the complete Gurkha experience. Much of that has been and will continue to be peacetime soldiering, and so it is perhaps unsurprising that the contents of the book reflect this.

The book is copiously illustrated, with many previously-unseen photographs provided by the Gurkhas who were interviewed. There is also much humour. I enjoyed the story of the 7GR CQMS who, on the way to the Falklands, got lost for 24 hours on the QE2, not having sufficiently good English to find his way back to where he was supposed to be and having to be rescued ‘embarrassed and extremely hungry’ by a kindly British NCO. Major(QGO) Judbahdur Gurung of the Queen’s Gurkha Engineers tells the story of how they fixed small explosive charges to a Figure 11 target at which (the then) General Sir Edwin Bramall was shooting in order to ensure he got a good grouping – and which he had the good grace to disown, stating that he had always been a ‘lousy shot’!

‘Gurkhas: Warriors from the Himalayas’ is an almost entirely British-free zone, although there are a few passing mentions of individuals. The story of Krishna Bahadur Gurung, latterly Gurkha Major of the Queen’s Own Gurkha Transport Regiment, includes a photograph of him when he was (then Brigadier) John Chapple’s driver in 48 Gurkha Infantry Brigade. The much-respected WRVS lady of 2/2GR, Eileen McEvoy, gets a couple of mentions. Three or four unnamed British Officers (but who you may recognise) make an appearance in group photographs. There is a short paragraph in one account about training British subalterns. That’s about it. Far from finding this disappointing, I felt it is probably an accurate account of lives in which most of Gurkhas’ experience is coloured by their fellow-countrymen and we British play a fairly distant role.

Each individual is given a chapter in the book. These are loosely grouped together into ‘Chronicles’. For example the input from several family members of Subedar Buddhi Bahadur Limbu of 10GR are combined under ‘The Legacy of Buddhi’, and the accounts of seven westerners are grouped under ‘Tales from the West’ (although there are accounts from other westerners elsewhere in the book). This structure gives prominence to the personal stories – which was perhaps the intention – but it does not provide a logical sequence to the narrative and, as there is a great deal of commonality in the experiences of those interviewed, leads to much repetition. Common themes include family background, recruitment, training, service in the various garrisons where Gurkhas were based, operational service in Cyprus, the Gulf, the Balkans and Afghanistan, marriage and retirement. Grouping the material around these would have provided a more progressive storyline and made the book easier to read. Many individual accounts are also incomplete or disjointed, but that is of course how we remember our past. Nevertheless, combining them in a thematic treatment might have created a more comprehensive and coherent picture.

I would also observe that the majority of the accounts are from senior Gurkha officers. Only 8 out of the 28 stories from Gurkha men come from those below the rank of Captain, and only 3 from those below the rank of Sergeant. This does not necessarily detract from the accuracy of the overall picture as the officers all came up through the ranks and are therefore able to reflect that experience, but it does mean we are mainly hearing from the relatively small number of the most capable and successful Gurkhas rather than the much greater majority whose careers did not progress beyond junior rank.

In summary, I am glad I bought the book. It provides a different view of what life in the Brigade is like for Gurkhas in a way that has not been done before. As such it is a valuable historical record. Its structure and its length (833 pages) means it is not an easy book to read in a conventional way, but it is well-indexed and lends itself to being read by individual chapters. ‘Try dipping in and out of it’ is perhaps the best advice I can offer other than recommending that you buy or borrow a copy to enjoy it for yourself.

One afternoon in December 2008 I arrived at Headley Court Military Rehabilitation Hospital in Epsom to give a Christmas present of bespoke shirts to seriously injured young service personnel returning from Afghanistan, as a gift of gratitude and in recognition of their courage serving our country. I was met by Peter Haslam, who ran the non-medical side of the hospital and had devoted over 15 years of his life to our injured, and is now a great friend. A nurse took me to the Complex Trauma Unit where the patients were having their supper. She gave me the invaluable advice that I should talk to them about their injuries and how they were sustained as they are very proud of their service and it is good for their psychological recovery to talk about it. As I drove home I knew I could not just walk away from these young servicemen and women, and had to keep visiting.

Over 10 years of visits I gathered a personal address book of over 500 injured servicemen and women, and subsequently their wives, mothers, partners and children. I realised that after being discharged they faced colossal challenges when beginning new lives and jobs, particularly as many of them were very young. I realised it would greatly help them to have smart clothes for interviews and work. Through my business contacts I arranged for Marks & Spencer and Reiss to donate over 1000 suits, for Russell and Bromley to give them smart leather brogues, and for Lock’s to give hats to those with head injuries (one young man was never without his bowler hat at Headley Court!). In addition I designed a black ebony walking stick for those who needed one, with a silver band engraved with their initials and regiment, making it appear as a smart fashion accessory rather than a medical aid.


Hari Budha Magar being kitted out with a smart Reiss suit.

Style for Soldiers has sponsored 10 injured veterans into new careers. We have funding degrees at University, put on an exhibition of their powerful poetry, paintings and performances in three cities called ‘Art in the Aftermath’ and used our contacts to make introductions that in many cases have led to very beneficial opportunities for them.

I met many Gurkhas at Headley Court, including the astonishing Hari Budha Magar, who greeted me with that dazzling smile and humbling gratitude for his bespoke shirt. I told him that my father Michael Willis had served with the 1st Battalion 2nd Gurkhas in Singapore as a young man and had raised over £100,000 for the Gurkha Welfare Trust. I had been brought up surrounded by Gurkha items including china figures on our dining room table, Gurkha portraits in my father’s dressing room, and Gurkha table mats. Hari and his wife Urmila have become great friends of my father and I over the years. A few years ago they invited him for tea on his birthday and Urmila made the most beautiful cake decorated with a Gurkha cap badge.

We receive many moving letters, emails and messages from patients, often hand-written and sometimes in careful capitals rather than joined-up writing, as well as thanks from several mothers, all of which I have kept. I remember one patient writing that he was going to propose in his shirt and the engagement ring was ‘burning a hole in his pocket.’

As these young people, predominantly men, started to go out in to the world they missed each other and the company of like-minded former colleagues who had experienced things that we civilians will never know or be able to imagine. I learnt that loneliness can be the trigger for PTSD, depression or addiction, which is not at all surprising, so began arranging reunions which are now the most important things we do. e hold the largest reunions in the country for injured service personnel and their families, including a summer dinner in Gloucestershire and a big Christmas Dinner at The Savoy in London. We also organise two Family Days, one at Woburn Safari Park kindly given for over 10 years now by His Grace The Duke of Bedford and the other at Cotswold Wildlife Park given by owner Reggie Heyworth. The charity provides hotel accommodation for everyone at these events. We always have the pleasure of welcoming several Gurkhas, their wives and children at our reunions.

Hari Budha Magar and his wife Umilla at the S4S Christmas Party 2025.

Gurkha ex-servicemen at one of the other ‘Style for Soldiers’ events in 2024.

The reunions are joyful events. In 2016, the then Prince of Wales attended our Style for Soldiers Christmas Party at Spencer House. His Royal Highness had discreetly visited Headley Court many, many times, and I heard how many young service personnel had awoken from their operation to see the face of their future King, as well as enjoying wonderful conversations at their bedsides. The Prince of Wales met and talked to over 100 injured service personnel and then spoke to all our 250 guests, an encounter which we will of course treasure for all our lifetimes.

The charity’s events also introduce wives, partners and children, creating a strong network that I hope will last independently of Style for Soldiers well into the future, for the rest of their lives. Their physical and psychological injuries will never go away. I have noticed what a vital role the wives and partners so often play in supporting our injured, and it is a great pleasure to be able to include them too in our parties and family days. I feel honoured and privileged to have met and got to know very well so many of our brave armed forces personnel and their families over the years, and now understand very well my father’s passion throughout his life to support them as best we can.

His Royal Highness the Prince of Wales (now King Charles III) meeting injured Gurkhas and their families at the 2016 reunion event. Emma Willis is on the right of the picture.

 

More about the charity and details of how to donate to it can be found on its website: https://www.styleforsoldiers.com/Style for Soldiers is holding a fundraising event in London on 8th April.  Hari Budha Magar will discuss with Frank Gardner, the BBC correspondent, his extraordinary expedition in which he made mountaineering history by becoming the first above-knee double amputee to summit the highest peaks of the seven continents, including Mount Everest.  To book tickets please see https://www.styleforsoldiers.com/products/an-evening-with-frank-gardner-obe-and-hari-budha-magar-mbe-8th-april-2026

Hari Budha Magar on the summit of Mt Vinson, Antarctica